For the woman who wants even more in her relationship 

From Shutdown

to Unshakable Connection

What if you could go from “you always walk away when we’re talking!” to “thank you for having that conversation with me,” and finally turn that silence & shutdown into closeness & connection?

Oh, I need this!
Sign me up for only $5!

Inside this 45-minute on-demand Workshop, I'll show you the one calm convo that gently reopens communication and helps your partner feel safe enough to lean back in after they shut down. No pressure. No long dramatic talks. Just real connection for an even better relationship.

I know what it feels like to have a partner who shuts down the moment you bring up something challenging


You sit down to talk after you get yourself all hyped up to have this conversation because you HAVE been meaning to have a conversation


And the moment the words come out of your mouth, you can just tell…

The look on their face says it all... they’re not going to listen to you

You feel your stomach drop and the disappointment rise

They’ve completely shut down while you're trying to share something important

Sometimes this looks like them getting angry and defensive over something small

And sometimes it looks like them just leaving the conversation and never coming back to the room… they just, find something better to do

You’re left hanging, frustrated, and wondering why the conversation went sideways this time and if you’ll ever feel like you’re on the same page, again


It happens so often, sometimes you barely notice it, but the disconnection and disappointment you feel right after reminds you that they are still pulling away


I know you get it.

And you're in the right place.

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By the end of this 45-minute Workshop, you'll have:

  • A 20-minute conversation framework you can use immediately with your partner
  • A clear way to bring up important topics in your relationship without triggering shutdown or defensiveness
  • A repeatable structure to solve challenges together (instead of avoiding them) and get back on the same page
  • A simple plan to introduce this to your partner and start re-opening your communication & connection this week

You won’t just understand the process- you’ll be ready to use it.

This tool transforms relationships.


The problem is not the shutdown… it’s what you both do before and after the shutdown. 

If your partner pulls away or shuts down, this simple, powerful conversation helps you shift the energy, feel heard, and open the door to real connection again.

"I didn't cry when I brought up 'marriage work' stuff, and it was the first time- maybe ever- that I felt relief because I didn't have to brace myself for the conversation. This works!"

-D.M.

"When I started this process, I could barely tell my partner when something was bothering me and I never wanted to hear if I was doing something 'wrong.' This tool makes it so much easier to discuss challenges and stay grounded (instead of getting triggered) when having those tough conversations."

-L.A.

“We’ve been having more understanding conversations and are making it a priority to do things together. This weekend is just the two of us so we are planning a date :)"

-C.S.

BONUSES:

  • Bonus 1: Real-Life Scripts & Examples

See exactly how my husband and I use this tool- so you know what to say and how best to say it (for those nervous moments or when you aren't sure how to bring something up).

  • Bonus 2: Free Relationship Coaching Call Giveaway ($250 value)

For everyone who watches and sends me an aha/takeaway from the Workshop- you’ll be entered to win a private Relationship Coaching Call with me. You can pick my brain, we can do parts work, or we can focus on the ONE thing that's been eating at you in your relationship so you can shift it asap.

I draw a winner monthly.

  • Bonus 3: Workshop Recording (Lifetime Access)

Rewatch the training anytime so you can implement this tool in your relationship for years to come.

I invite you to take a moment to imagine what’s possible after shifting this in your relationship…


What would it be like to wake up each morning with your relationship feeling like the softest, coziest blanket you just want to stay snuggled up in?

To have something on your heart and mind and not be afraid to bring it up to your spouse?

To feel like your desires, opinions, and needs (whether it’s what’s for dinner or how you’re spending family money) always matter to your partner?


To have something that is bothering or triggering you and trust you can have an open conversation where they actually sit there, listen, and connect with you and you both leave that conversation feeling closer than you did before you started talking?

To feel confident asking your partner to take the kids for an afternoon or for support around the house because you trust that when you ask, your partner will happily show up and provide those things for you… and more?

To have a simple tool that you can always come back to for reconnection, deeper conversation, and important communication so making up after a fight is easy, you're both taking responsibility for your own emotions, and you're both showing up more regulated?

I want you to know, this can be your reality.

Ready to feel like your partner is your best friend again, like you’ve got each other’s backs and at the same time want to jump each other’s bones??

It starts with this one conversation.


You know your partner cares a lot, they don’t want to shut down, they want to work on things in your relationship, they're invested... they just don’t know what to do to make this piece better.

This Workshop will give you the tools you need to help you both show up, communicate, and connect more deeply.


About Lacey

Lacey has been coaching for 10 years, is IFS-trained, and is the creator of the “Connected Partnership” framework. 

She’s helped dozens of women rebuild communication and connection in their relationships- and has personally used the exact tool she's teaching in this Workshop in her own marriage for over 5 years to create easier communication, closer connection, and hotter intimacy.

FAQs

Does my partner need to participate in this?

Nope, this is for women only (if you're a same sex couple you both can enroll)! You'll be learning the tool at this Workshop to take back to your partner and implement it in your relationship. This works best for women who know their partner is on board with creating better communication & connection since their participation will be required later ;).

How much time does this take each week?

Once you learn the tool it will take about 20 minutes every week. That’s the point- it’s simple and sustainable.

Are you just going to teach us how to get into the "right energy?"

Oh, hell no. While I do think how we come to the conversation is important (and I'll be touching on it in the Workshop), I'm giving you the EXACT step-by-step structure for this tool, plus tips and tricks, so you can take it back to your partner and start using it in your relationship right away.


Is this live?

No, this is an on-demand, pre-recorded Workshop which means it's sent straight to your inbox as soon as you enroll and you can watch whenever it's convenient for you. I'm also sending an audio file in case you'd rather listen to the Workshop. ;)

What if I decide I need support implementing this tool later?

Well then, you're in luck! I have a special offer [ONLY for the women who sign-up for this workshop] to get support implementing the tool with their partner. Some women will just take this and run with it- I love that for you! And, if you're someone who could use a tad more support, I promise not to leave you hanging- I've got you covered.

What more women are saying...

"We’re making good progress and doing marriage meetings consistently.  The thing I love most right now- this conversation is refining how we SEE each other and how we communicate.  It’s been SO helpful!" -D.M.


“We’re actually having weekly conversations and he’s not dropping things on me right before bed.” -M.R.


“I love that we have containers to talk about important things every week and I don’t have to bring a list of grievances a mile long.” -A.E.

Relationships take work.

This is for you if you’re willing to put in a little time and effort (probably less than you are right now) to create a lasting relationship that thrives.

And if you want to save thousands on future couple's therapy costs. <3

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