You want to feel confident, you want to activate your magic and

show up fully while single and dating

...so you can finally find your person and build a healthy, secure,

epic partnership.

I see you, I know you, I was you… and I know you want:

To create an amazing partnership with tons of love, respect, fun, laughter, sexiness, pleasure, ease, honesty, vulnerability, and alignment

To enjoy being single and dating and dialing down that body anxiety while you are atracting your dream partner

A partner who can meet you where you’re at with your body and health challenges and bring out the best in you and your life while also doing their own work

To feel connected, safe and secure in your partnership even when you’re having a hard body day

To feel better about yourself and trust yourself more so you can stop leaving before they can leave you

Where your partner buys you flowers every week, cooks for you regularly, and treats you like a goddess(x) because you’ve asked them to and can finally receive it

Someone you have hot chemistry with, who you can grow with, who is consistent in their support and affection (and tells you your body is beautiful)

To be able to ask for what you want and need in this partnership (for example: it would make me feel so loved if we went out to dinner once a week and you paid or I could really use help getting into this position in bed- it would feel so good)

To feel totally nourished and confident when you’re single/alone but also know you get to be in a yummy partnership

To feel decent in your body more of the time and show up as YOU (maybe for the first time, ever)- after years of hiding due to chronic health issues, disabilities, or body insecurity

To accept your body a smidge more each day (even just 1%) so you don’t just assume it’s because of your body when your partner isn’t in the mood for sex

To speak up more and share where you’re struggling so your partner can step up and support you as your body needs change

To feel deserving and worthy of the relationship you desire and stop feeling like a burden to your partner because of your chronic health issues, disabilities, or limitations

To stop wondering if you’re settling because you’re worried no one else could love you or want to be with you and your health challenges

To feel like warm honey, dark chocolate, and hot sunshine all at once in your body- even when it’s just a shit body day and you’d rather disappear and be alone

In a nutshell you want: more love and a brag-worthy, healthy relationship(s) where you can be loved for all of you (even your differences).

Bare Relationships can get you here.

A few things you are struggling with at the moment:

You struggle to ask the person you’re dating for what you want/need (currently you get a lump in your throat, feel like you want to cry, and walk or roll away)

Maybe you don’t even know what you want or desire or feel like you don’t deserve it because you’re too much

You get triggered constantly in relationships and feel like you’re not a good partner because you need more than the able-bodied woman

You never feel “enough” or “ready” when dating & the body stuff adds a whole other layer of anxiety around this

You’re in a sexless (or otherwise unsatisfying) situationship that’s slowly killing your soul

You can’t communicate to your partner in a vulnerable, confident way or feel like you’re asking for too much

You struggle with low self-worth, your desires feel unrealistic or you doubt your person/brag-worthy relationship even exists

You’re scared of rejection or failure and it’s kept you single for years when all you really want are a partner and family

You don’t feel comfortable with your body, health challenges or disabilities and you feel insecure talking about it all in relationships

You don’t think you deserve to have the things you want, are good enough, or that you get to have what you want.

>>If even one of these things ^^ resonated with you, know that this is why the confidence work is so powerful, why the Confidence & Body Image work are worth it, and why it will absolutely change your life.

You’re not alone.

So how do you go from not being able to show up fully in your relationships or even go on dates to feeling more confident and creating your brag-worthy partnership?

You get Bare, of course.

Bare Relationships is a 6-month 1:1 container where I support you to increase your confidence in yourself, your body, and your ability to communicate; get clear on what you want and desire and ask for it; and actually implement the strategies and stay consistent so you can finally see the results you’ve wanted for the past 5+ years.

We dive deep into the confidence and self-worth pieces, but in this unique program we also dive deep into body confidence. Because not feeling good enough in/about your body is often what keeps you from showing up on the dating apps, going on as many dates as it takes and letting yourself be seen vulnerably once you're in the partnership. You can’t create the yummy partnership with your person if you don’t first show up, speak up and put yourself out there consistently.

What does “bare” mean to me?

Bare means…

Stripping off all the stories and beliefs we have taken on from society.

Dropping all the cultural, societal “shoulds” placed on us since birth.

Shedding the bullshit that no longer serves us. Like dropping clothing as we walk.

Showing up vulnerably. Showing up authentically.

Showing up honestly. As all of who we are.

Being raw. Primal.

Being seen. Being heard.

Speaking our truth. Asking for what we want and need.

Naked. Coming back to who we are.

Our whole self. The self we were born to be.

The way we were incarnated into this body and this life. Feeling comfortable in this skin and this vessel of ours (even 1% more).

Fucking bare. Open.

Ready to receive something new- or lots of magical things.

This is the journey I've been on for 8 years and continue to be on.

It's what I bring to my clients, too. It changes their lives.

Your bare is waiting for you. ;)

Who is Bare Relationships for?

It’s for you if you are a female identifying human with chronic health challenges, disabilities, or body insecurities who wants to show up fully so you can create a healthy, yummy, s.xy, fun, secure, satisfying partnership.

You know you have an incredible life waiting for you and you want someone (or a family) to share it with, but you know something needs to change for you to live that out (in a way that works for you and your unique challenges).

You want to create a thriving, brag-worthy relationship where your partner meets you where you’re at, expands your life, adds to it, and have someone to grow and experience the ups and downs of life (including health challenges) with, all while creating a partnership that works for YOU and feels fucking amazing for both of you.

...And you want a coach to walk (or roll) with you on this journey. <3

Confidence is the KEY and you NEED it to: show up, be seen in dating, attract and stay with high-quality partners and communicate your needs and desires.

Who is this program not for?

It’s not for you if you:

Don’t want this level of high-touch support or aren’t ready for it
Aren’t open to doing tons of confidence work (including body image work) in the background (while also sprinkling on the mindset)/Are looking for a coach who has all the answers and you don’t want to build your self-trust
Just want the strategy for finding a partner or being in a relationship (we go deep over here)
Aren’t going to take advantage of the unlimited Voxer support (this is where a lot of magic happens)
Need mental health/depression support, I would encourage you to add a therapist for that side of things
Can't show up for calls, make payments on time, or show up/take action each week
Are not in a space both health + lifestyle wise to be able to show up 1-2 hours a day whethers it's working on the new-ish relationship you’re in, doing inner work, coaching calls, going on dates, etc.
Are just looking for a place to complain, we’ve all been in those facebook/support groups, this is a place for the ones who want to put in the work, who want to see changes, understand that we might have challenges, but love is still possible for us (and btw you can of course vent on a hard day - we all have those days and I'm here to hold you in that and would 1000% expect it from time to time)

More amazing results that clients have gotten…

“Before working with Lacey, I suspected that body image struggles were preventing me from fully showing up. Lacey held space for me to process through moments of body image panics and appreciate my body for exactly how it is right now.

I have confidence that no matter how people respond- I’ll figure it out AND I’ve realized people are a lot nicer than I gave them credit for.

I’ve got so much going on- it’s not body related- but I know I can tell you anyway and I've realized it’s all interconnected.

I can’t wait to try the check-in tool, that way I won’t be showing up to my new boyfriend with a list of grievances and we’ll both know what to expect.”

Who am I and why do I do this work?

Hi lovey!

If we haven’t met, I’m Lacey aka The Confidence Temptress & a Certified Body Image Coach. I LOVE working on confidence and body image in my coaching because it’s what I struggled with for decades (and still do, if we’re being honest).

See, I was diagnosed with a chronic, progressive muscle condition at age 12 and from that point on all I knew was: there’s something wrong with me and I’m not good enough.

While I stuffed down a lot of those feelings for mannnnyyy years, it constantly showed up for me in relationships.

I’ve been on hundreds of first dates and used to scout out places for dates to make sure I could get in and out easily (no stairs) and it had close parking. I used to believe nobody would want to be with me (beause fuck, I didn’t even want to deal with my health stuff or limitations).

For years I was with men who weren’t ready, or were unavailable, or even who didn’t treat me the way I wanted to be treated. I went along with it because I thought that was the “best I could do.” I never asked for what I wanted or needed and I couldn’t show up vulnerably because I was terrified of rejection.

I know first hand how painful this is, which is why I now coach other women struggling to show up with all their body stuff in their relationships.

For a while, my coaching was focused on visibility (which is important), but I knew it was something deeper, something bigger that was holding me (and a lot of other women) back.

I could see it in their eyes. Hear it in their voices when we talked.

That thing, I realized, is confidence.

The confidence to show up, to be seen, to be vulnerable, to possibly fail or be rejected and still be okay.

This is so needed for us to be able to put our selves out there and cultivate a brag-worthy relationship.

It takes courage and vulnerability to do this.

It’s a process, a life long journey.

You never get to an end point where you feel 100% confident and that’s that.

But let me tell you, even a daily confidence practice is well worth it.

...In the past few years I went from being single for 6 years to calling (back in) my partner whom I married in August 2022 and we bought a house together in April 2023. My husband is SO kind and generous, he’s good at advocating for my accessibility, helps me find places that are “Lacey friendly” and supports me not only emotionally but also physically when I need help with even the simple things. He’s also got a hot brain and is super sexy ;).

Confidence and body image work are how I got here and it’s how I help my clients get exceptional results, always.

Yes, we can talk about the surfacey relationship stuff- but that’s the easy part.

My clients like to go deep, practice the communication and self-love pieces, and start showing up differently in their partnership(s)… which changes their relationships forever.

I truly believe that you can’t put a price on confidence.

How can you put a price on something that helps you feel better every day, show up as YOU, brings the real YOU back into your life, brings you BACK to life, and literally changes everything?

You just can’t.

You ready to experience this for yourself?

You can book a call below to talk about what it would look like to work together.

What are the logistics of “Bare Relationships?”

Bare is a 6-month, 1:1 private coaching experience where we use confidence as the lens through which we help you create your epic partnership(s).

My 3-part framework is:

Confidence

Content (all the strategies), and

Consistency

Here’s what’s included in the 6-month container:

Two 45-minute calls each month- so we can go DEEP into all the body and confidence pieces that are getting in the way of you having the love and relationship you want + deserve
Unlimited Voxer and email support (it’s like having me in your back pocket and clients have told me the Voxer support alone is worth $1500 a month)- so that you have me on call when you’re having a shit body day or a big confidence challenge
Pre and post session forms to keep us on track
A shit ton of confidence & some mindset tools
IFS (parts work) as desired to shift those deep rooted patterns, beliefs, and fears
My energy and transmission for 6-months, and
Fun gifts and bonuses for you throughout our 6 months together.

The investment: $1500 x6 months

>>You want in? The best place to start and see if we're a match is to book a call.

How will confidence and body image work help me create more love and a yummy partnership?

Simply: we can only attract in the humans, partners, experiences, opportunities and love we want to the extent that we love and believe in ourselves & show up and ask for what we need.

But if you want to get practical, let’s break down my 3-part framework ;)::

Partnership >>

Confidence- we both know the kind of people we attract in when we’re not feeling confident. How we settle, how we tell ourselves we couldn’t do any better because who else would love us? We’ve all been in those relationships. We need to have some baseline of confidence, self-love, self-respect, being clear about our boundaries, and communicating what we won’t put up with in order to call in and create epic partnership(s). Note: you don’t have to be perfect or 100% confident here- that's not a thing.

Content- this is what we bring to the dating experience or to a new relationship, everything that makes it a partnership. Communication, play, sex, fun dates, ease, travel, vulnerability, thoughtfulness… you can’t have a great partnership without the meat of what makes it epic. This starts when you’re single and continues into long-term partnership.

Consistency- you need to show up to attract in your partner/in your partnership every day (turns out). Are you checking in regularly, communicating clearly, asking for what you need, connecting, having play dates, adventures, etc.? Are you being open, honest, sticking to your boundaries and your desires? Consistency is so important for finding our person and then maintaining that relationship.

We work on all of this and more in the 6-month container.

It is relationship and life changing.

No one does this work the way I do.

No one is better at it than me, because I struggled with Confidence (and health/body image issues) for decades and have used my tools to show up, be seen and call in my person- I know EXACTLY what is needed.

If you’ve been doing the situationship/short-term relationship thing for years and still don't feel any closer to your brag-worthy, long-term partnership, I would hazard a guess that it’s a confidence challenge.

Let’s explore whether this work might be the thing that finally changes it all for you.

>>If there’s something here (or not here) that you’re curious about, hop on a call and ask me about it.

I’m not in a relationship, yet, will you help me with dating?...

Totally! I spent 11 years on and off the dating apps and going on hundreds (seriously!) of first dates- we can definitely work on the foundational pieces around dating, but what’s going to be even more important is how you feel about dating, how you’re showing up, how you communicate your expectations- and that is what we dive deep into in this program.

I’m in a new-ish relationship but I'm not sure if it’s the ONE, is this for me?...

Absolutely! I spent a lot of years in relationships that were okay but not quite right. I even told one of my exes NOT to propose to me because I would say “no” (which was true, but not sure why I stayed with him?!). I love diving deep with my clients to figure out what they actually desire, and then working on the confidence and communication skills to share that with their partner. Most of the time, your partner really does want to see you satisfied, happy, thriving… but they just don’t know how to help you with that until you tell them.

I actually just need the strategy, Lacey…

Um, no, you don’t. If you did you would already be having the love you desire. You probably know all the strategy already, what you need is someone to hold you accountable, see your sneaky patterns that will try to take you out and support you with the confidence & mindset work in the background. That’s where “bare” comes in.

Why 6 months?- that feels like forever!

Haha, totally. And, how long have you had the thoughts you have in your head tearing you down? How long have you felt not good enough? How long have you struggled to express yourself, like the real you? How long have you been hiding? For me it was decades… and you can’t flip a switch and change that shit overnight. It takes time and consistency. 6-months is just the beginning of your life long confidence journey and we can get you showing up, putting yourself out there and knowing exactly what to do in your relationships going forward in this container.

What if I want a refund?

There are no refunds. However, read below about the 90-Day Coaching Guarantee. I believe in this program and know that it will help you feel more confident, show up, and make progress towards your goals so I’m willing to put my money where my mouth is. Most coaches don’t offer any kind of Guarantee because we can’t control our clients, but if you show up and do the work (which is part of the Guarantee terms), there is no way you won’t feel those shifts. The guarantee is meant to relay that in just 90 days you will get further with this program than you could have on your own- there is no question in my mind that that will be true for you, too.

I’m scared to go deep with this stuff…

I understand, it’s not always easy. And just know you can go as quickly or as slowly as you’d like. I have some clients who are ready to dive in and get to the juicy stuff right away. I have other clients who take a month or so to warm up and feel comfortable. I’ve got you. I am also trauma-aware and have completed 150+ hours of IFS training so if it goes somewhere deep, we’ll figure it out together in a loving, supportive way.

What if this throws a wrench in my whole life?

This is one of my favorites and used to be a HUGE fear of mine. Ya know, when I was with the guy I was pretty sure wasn’t great for me (but was scared to be alone) and didn’t want to rock the boat by starting my own business (bc my whole family thought I was fucking crazy)? AND, this is where the self-trust piece comes in. Can you trust yourself to figure it out? Do you trust yourself to be okay no matter what happens? If not, that’s exactly why you need this coaching, my love.

What if this isn’t possible for me/what if I don’t have what it takes?

This is possible for you and you do have what it takes. Every human does, in my opinion. We just lose sight of it, start to believe we don’t because of our environment, or fear we don’t get to have what we want while everyone else does. You are good enough and your desires are there for a reason. I can’t guarantee specific results, but what I can say is: you won’t be the same person after doing this work. You will be another version of yourself. A truer, more real, more raw, more open version of yourself… and only more love, fun and abundance can come from that place.

90 Day Coaching Guarantee

If after 90 days you don’t feel the slightest shift in your confidence or feel like you’re making some progress toward your goals, I will waive your payment for month 4. We’ll then make sure we’re on the same page and resume months 5 & 6 of the 6-month contract.

Before the 90 day mark, you will shoot me an email and we’ll have a convo about what’s not going as planned. If you have shown up fully for the 90 days, I’ll waive your next month’s payment.

In order to be eligible for this- you will need to show up and put in 100% for the first 90 days.

The following requirements must be met:

1)You show up for every call we have scheduled

2)You complete your pre AND post session forms for every session (this keeps us on track), and

3)You message me on Voxer at least 1x per week- even if it’s to say you don’t need support that week

Why this guarantee? Because this program works. And I know there’s a lot of distrust in the coaching industry these days so I want to help alleviate that for you as you’re considering your next investment.

Why the conditions of the guarantee? I will show up 150% for you, but I can’t do the work for you. You’ll need to be in it and show up in order to get the results you want. I know from experience that when clients don’t complete their pre & post season forms or use the in between call support they seem to struggle longer.

I’m so confident you will see shifts from this work, not necessarily that you’ll meet all your big goals in 90 days- because sometimes it takes more time to work through the deep things- but I want you to feel like you’re moving toward them better than you could have on your own. This is what the guarantee is about.

If you have any Questions about this, we can talk it out on the discovery call. It’ll also be laid out in our contract if we decide to work together.

Final note on the guarantee: If you’re considering enrolling just because you expect to NOT get results and take advantage of this Guarantee- please don’t enroll in the program. You will get what you put in, so if you go in thinking it won’t work… it won’t work. Instead, go in believing you’ll get exactly what you need and this will change your life. And you can have comfort in knowing that if at the 90 day point you don’t feel like it’s making any difference for how you feel, your goals or your life then we have something to fall back on and make it right.